Three Days, Three Weeks, Three Months
How long does it take to know if a dog or cat is the right fit for your home?
Adopting a rescue dog or cat is an exciting time. You decided to add a new family member, you fell in love, and now it’s time to bring her home. Sometimes it goes smoothly, but there will likely be an adjustment for you and the animal.
There are some guidelines for what to expect in the first three days, three weeks, and three months after adoption. Understanding what the pet might be going through can help you feel more patient and optimistic. The dog or cat needs time to adapt and adjust. In most cases, he will embrace his new life and be a wonderful companion for your family.
The first three days are the scariest time (and you might think, “What have I done?!”). You both may be feeling overwhelmed and unsure of what is happening. He’s not “himself” and might be shut down. Maybe he hides under furniture, in a crate, or another safe area. He may sleep a lot, not eat or drink, have bathroom accidents, and test boundaries. To help, set up a safe quiet space such as a spare bedroom or laundry room with a cozy bed and crate. Check-in with him, but don’t force him to accept attention. Speak calmly when getting to know him. Introduce him slowly to his new environment and family.
After the first three days, your new pet will likely settle in and feel more comfortable. She may start to realize that your home is a safe place. Establishing a routine is very important in the first three weeks. Consistent boundaries and rules are key. She may start showing her personality. You may also see behavior issues that will need to be addressed.
You might see your dog or cat’s true personality and temperament three months later. He will start to have a sense of security and be comfortable in the home. Trust is building, and he will start bonding with you, your family, and other pets. At this point, you can realistically judge if they are in their forever home.
Just like people, young pets adjust more quickly. Older and shyer animals may take a bit longer. Depending on their history, you may need to give it more time. As long as you see progress, you are doing the right things.
Lilypad should adjust quickly to her new home. Despite being out of sorts at the shelter, she settled into his foster home and showed her true personality. Her foster mom says, “Lilypad is a very sweet, petite little love bug. She has a lot to say and knows how to use her voice! She loves to cuddle, play, and sleep under the covers at night. ”
Since 1994, the Animal Resource Center and Shops of Second Chance Humane Society have been serving Ouray, San Miguel, and Montrose Counties. Our adoption hours are from Wednesday to Sunday, 11 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Address is 177 County Rd 10, Ridgway, CO. You can view our shelter pets and services online at secondchancehumane.org.